Showing posts with label dissenting. Show all posts
Showing posts with label dissenting. Show all posts

Saturday, July 18, 2020

Is it Love, Obsession or Affection?

What is the difference between obsession, love, and affection? 


There is a minor difference between all these three words, obsession comes when you love the person so much, so much that you want them everywhere, you control them, you become over-possessive and make things difficult for the person you love. Obsession can turn into real dark love that someone will never dream about and then one might need relief from that kind of love. Obsession is something one should understand and should not ever compare with the word love. This thing degrades the essence of love. 

Where love is the most beautiful feeling in this whole wide world. Love is where you give them space wherever needed, love them with all of their imperfections, cause there is nobody who is perfect in this world. Loving them allows you to make them free for whatever they want to do in their life while guiding them on the right path. People say I Love You to; too many people without meaning them, the reason the value of love and the idea of love has been underrated in the eyes of humans.

Affection is what people feel for the one they like, loving and liking them are two different things. One great man I don't know about has explained the meaning of liking and loving very beautifully. If you love a rose, you will water it every day; whereas if you like that rose you will pluck it out. This is what actually is happening in this world. People use the person they love and then remove(pluck) them out from their life. Affection is just liking the person for a while and then forget them very easily. You might regret what you have done while having affection for a person, but that doesn't make you a bad person. 


It's funny how loving someone more makes you obsessed with them, loving them less makes you feel like you're having affection towards them, and loving them just perfectly is how to be termed as love. It's just complicated shit that fucks your mind to the core. 


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Tuesday, June 2, 2020

"The Idea of LOVE"

''The Idea of LOVE"

 

LOVE? 

What is LOVE? 

What is the idea of LOVE? 

 

There are different experiences that people have in relation to love, some say Love is Blind, some say Being in love is the most beautiful feeling in the world and some also say that Love is waste of time, but the real fact is, the idea of love varies from people to people on the basis of their experiences.  Some might have the best and some might have the worst. It depends on the individual and the experiences from it. 



The experience one can have can be both of it, good and bad but from different individuals or the same individual at different time periods. In your heart, you might think that the person you love is the only person in this whole wide world, that the one you love will be always there for you at any time of life. But then, life takes a sudden turn and all the expectations come to an end. And then you feel empty and you feel the power of getting hurt by the one whom you thought will never break your expectations. The hurt you feel in love is all because one did not do the things you expected from them. This is what hurt means in love 'EXPECTATIONS'.  



Love can also be the best feeling in the world where you feel alive seeing the person you love and feeling the things that they feel. You feel like giving them everything in this world. You also feel like being the most loyal person in this world, you do anything for the whether you are in the condition of doing it or not. Love makes people do things that they never did for anyone, but then life again takes a sudden turn and you do something that the person whom you love never expected from you, and that thing hurts you and from that things get complicated.


 


KARMA plays a vital role in everybody's life. The main purpose of karma is to serve people what they deserve in action to the things they have done. Sometimes you love the person and then some other person comes into your life. Life makes you closer to the second person and things become really easy for you to live. You feel like being alive again and that makes you so happy that you forget that there is someone in your life (first person). You started the journey with the second person in the thought of friendship, but how can you be friends with the person you love. The Mind never understands the heart and you can feel it by understanding the situation you are in. Then comes the power of KARMA, you didn't give attention to the person that has loved you, and now the person whom you are loving is not giving you the attention. This is how the cycle of karma works and when the time comes it will give you the best learning in your life, the same learning will give you the idea of living the life in the upcoming future. Learning is a must, whether from good or bad situations.  

Despite being in the world of crazy humans, we try to live our life normally, there are some humans who are fighting the war within. The war sometimes becomes so big that one tries to escape from it and from doing so they hurt the people they love and make a careless decisions. Love has the power of bringing something down to earth and making them feel like crap and as well as it has the power to make you feel amazing though. It all depends on the experiences one has from it.  


This is the first try from my side for writing a blog, hope you like it.
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