Is it Love, Obsession or Affection?

What is the difference between obsession, love, and affection? 


There is a minor difference between all these three words, obsession comes when you love the person so much, so much that you want them everywhere, you control them, you become over-possessive and make things difficult for the person you love. Obsession can turn into real dark love that someone will never dream about and then one might need relief from that kind of love. Obsession is something one should understand and should not ever compare with the word love. This thing degrades the essence of love. 

Where love is the most beautiful feeling in this whole wide world. Love is where you give them space wherever needed, love them with all of their imperfections, cause there is nobody who is perfect in this world. Loving them allows you to make them free for whatever they want to do in their life while guiding them on the right path. People say I Love You to; too many people without meaning them, the reason the value of love and the idea of love has been underrated in the eyes of humans.

Affection is what people feel for the one they like, loving and liking them are two different things. One great man I don't know about has explained the meaning of liking and loving very beautifully. If you love a rose, you will water it every day; whereas if you like that rose you will pluck it out. This is what actually is happening in this world. People use the person they love and then remove(pluck) them out from their life. Affection is just liking the person for a while and then forget them very easily. You might regret what you have done while having affection for a person, but that doesn't make you a bad person. 


It's funny how loving someone more makes you obsessed with them, loving them less makes you feel like you're having affection towards them, and loving them just perfectly is how to be termed as love. It's just complicated shit that fucks your mind to the core. 


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